For
most 13 year old girls a trip to the mall is a fun event. It holds
the prospect of maybe a new outfit for the first day of school,
meeting up with friends or a new pair of shoes. For my 13 year old
daughter with autism, a trip to the mall is simply exhausting. There
are too many bright lights, colors, clutter, scratchy fabrics and
choices. A two hour trip to the mall often requires a nap on the
way home in the car to reset and not feel so overwhelmed. Having
a diagnosis of autism is broad and can encompass many things. Rylie
has high functioning autism and she always says she just has a little
bit of autism. Primarily, she has speech and language limits,
sensory issues and social anxiety. As a family we have learned to
find a ways around the first two, but the social anxiety is the
most difficult. So as a family, we are always looking for activities
and events we can all enjoy. Enter Elko Speedway and the Nick Beaver
Racing Team! My husband and I attended a couple of races with Nicks
Aunt and Uncle when they would come from Wisconsin to watch Nick
race. I noticed that Elko Speedway was a family environment and
provided entertainment that would appeal to all ages and genders,
as well as great racing. On a quiet summer Saturday night in 2013,
we decided to bring Rylie and her sister to Elko Speedway and see
what they thought. During the short drive, we prepared Rylie for
the loud cars and crowds, solving each of them by telling her she
would sit between her dad and I and we would get earplugs to drown
out the noise. During each race her and I would pick out our favorite
color car or if there were girl drivers that would be who wed
cheer for. Of course, in the Big 8s we cheered for Nick. Rylie
was hooked, and looked forward to going to the races again! During
one of the first couple visits to the pits after the races, we stopped
in to say hello to Nick and his team. Nick was standing at the rear
of his car signing his trading cards and offered to sign one for
Rylie. She thought that was pretty cool
and he signed her checkered
flag too! Not only did she feel special, she felt noticed! I dont
think we missed many Saturday nights at the racetrack after that.
From Nicks trading card she learned all his statistics and
thought he was cute too. Then when Nick won a feature race we left
our seats and went to congratulate him in Victory Lane! To our surprise,
we were invited to join in the crew picture. Mike, Nicks Crew
Chief and Dad, said he would get us a copy of the photo, but did
much more than that! Nick autographed it and thanked us for our
support and Mike and Jennifer personally delivered the framed photo!
We were so grateful for the act of kindness and thought it was pretty
cool! In the days following, Rylie asked a lot of questions as to
why Nick and his team would do something like that for us. The only
thing to say was that they were good, kind people and they simply
appreciated us coming to the track to cheer them on. Over the winter
Rylie counted down the days until opening day
. she was excited
to spend Saturday nights cheering Nick and his team on.
The
2014 season started out pretty soggy with many race nights being
rained out. Over the winter Nick had gotten a new sponsor, Kan Do,
and had new promotional items like hats and trading cards. During
our visits to the pits after the races, the team made sure Rylie
got autographed copies of it all! Again, they took a few minutes
to notice her and she felt accepted and a part of something. Nick
and his crew greeted every fan with enthusiasm, but in more than
one instance she was referred to as their biggest fan! It didnt
come from just Nick and his Crew Chief, but also from members of
the crew that we happened to meet at the concession stand too. I
am certain they didnt realize the impact this had on Rylie.
The social anxiety keeps her from engaging in conversation and so
she stands in the back and observes. But three simple words our
biggest fan meant the world to her. Given the choice to do
an activity or stay home, she almost always would choose staying
home. But, every Saturday morning she looks up the weather forecast
and gives us a report on the chances of watching Nick race that
night. As her parents, seeing her excitement and anticipation to
go to Elko and be Nicks biggest fan is pure joy for us. I
believe Nick, Mike, Skip, Joanne, Evan, Jacob and the rest of the
crew are good, kind hearted and generous souls and set out to be
good role models of racing families and just do all the right things.
So as Rylies mom, I had to take the opportunity to let them
know by writing a note of thanks for their kindness. Now they knew
the impact they have had on Rylie by simply being kind and we, her
parents, were very grateful. It seems that note had an impact on
them too. The next two weeks we were on vacation but kept track
of what was happening at the track in our absence. That first Saturday
we were gone, Nick won the feature race and Rylie and I jumped for
joy in our tiny hotel room! Little did we know the plans Nick and
the team had for that feature win trophy. When we returned to the
track that next Saturday Rylie wanted to be assured that everything
would be back to normal and we would just stop in, say hi and be
on our way! The team had other plans
they presented Rylie with
the trophy from their last feature win and a team jersey for being
their biggest fan! I cried, she was in shock and speechless! I think
I prompted her to say thank you a thousand times, we were all at
a loss for words because of this huge kind gesture! On the way home
Rylie asked a million times why
the only answer I could think
of was that they are just simply nice people. Although being the
center of attention is not her favorite place to be, her genuine
beautiful smile said it all. She felt special and noticed and she
belonged to something great. For the next week the trophy went wherever
she did in the house. It sat on the couch next to her while watching
TV and any fingerprints were buffed away so it was always shiny.
Now, it has a special place on a shelf in her room with all of the
Nick Beaver racing team photos, trading cards and autographed Kan
Do hats. As the 2014 season winds to a close, we will miss our Saturday
nights at Elko and cheering on the Nick Beaver Racing team and the
countdown to 2015 will start.
The Beaver Racing Team tells their story about Rylie and the Fox
family, written by Joanne Zacharias, who is the Owner of My KD Company
LLC and the Beaver Racing Teams Sponsor:
The Beaver Racing Team knows the importance of building a fan
base. In 2011 Nick Beaver started racing in the Big 8 Series at
Elko Speedway. From the start, Nick wanted to be known as a clean
driver and from his on-track respect that he had earned, it has
carried over to the off-track respect of everyone. Slowly fans started
to show their interest in Nick and along the way one fan in particular
stands out above all others. Rylie Fox a 13 year old girl along
with her parents Tracie and Brian. This family was introduced to
the Beavers and a lifelong journey had begun. At every race the
Fox family came to cheer Nick on and afterwards came into the pits
to say hello and congratulate Nick Beaver and the Beaver Racing
Team. Nick and his team always acknowledged Rylie and her family
and she became our biggest fan! Each time she and her family would
share a little more information with our crew. We learned that Rylie
has high functioning autism and social anxiety. We had no idea and
just thought she was shy. As the Beaver Racing Team learned of this
information, they took it upon themselves to always make her feel
special and include her any way possible.
The Beaver Racing Team got a new sponsor for 2014. Joanne Zacharias
is the Owner of My KD Company LLC. The KD stands for Kan DO,
Dont Tell Me I Kant and this fits perfectly for
the Beaver Racing Team. Joanne had lots of racing merchandise made
for the fans of Nick Beaver. DTMK (Dont Tell Me I Kant)
hats, Kan Do hats, and racing jerseys. We started handing out this
merchandise to all of our fans that would stop by the pits after
the races. We made sure that Rylie and her family got one of each
since she is our biggest fan and has touched our hearts the most!
Nick
and his team had decided that the next time that he won the feature
they would give the trophy to Rylie. Also, the Beaver Racing Team
had already ordered customized Beaver Racing pit shirts to make
them official members of our team. When they got back from their
vacation boy did we have a surprise for them! In the pits after
the races the Fox family stopped by and we presented Rylie with
the Big 8 Feature Trophy that Nick had won and gave them their official
pit shirts. They were in tears because they were so surprised and
shocked that we would do something like this for them. We cried
too because we are so internally grateful for this bond that has
been created between our two families.
As this years racing has come to an end at Elko Speedway,
our lifelong friendship with the Fox family will continue. We have
big plans for our #10 car this winter and we plan on coming back
strong next year. We will continue to be in touch with Rylie and
her family through the winter and include them whenever possible
in our winter activities. We cannot thank the Fox family enough
for constantly standing by our side and cheering us on. Our hearts
have been deeply touched by Rylie, her story, and her family. Now
she and her family are part of our story, our journey, and forever
in our hearts.
Nick Beaver and the Beaver Racing Team felt it necessary to
write this story since our hearts have been touched hopefully yours
will be too!
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