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Invite someone of a different
background to join your family for a meal or holiday. |
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22. |
Give a multicultural
doll, toy or game as a gift. |
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23. |
Assess the cultural diversity
reflected in your home's artwork, music and literature. Add
something new. |
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24. |
Don't buy playthings
that promote or glorify violence. |
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25. |
Establish a high "comfort
level" for open dialogue about social issues. Let children
know that no subject is taboo. |
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26. |
Bookmark equity and diversity
websites on your home computer. |
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27. |
Point out stereotypes
and cultural misinformation depicted in movies, TV shows, computer
games and other media. |
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28. |
Take the family to an
ethnic restaurant. Learn about more than just the food. |
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29. |
Involve all members of
the family in selecting organizations to support with charitable
gifts. |
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30. |
Gather information about
local volunteer opportunities and let your children select projects
for family participation. |
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31. |
Play "action hero"
with your children. Are the heroes all aggressive males? Help
your children see the heroic qualities in those whose contributions
often go unrecognized (e.g., nurses, bridge builders, volunteers
in homeless shelters). |
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32. |
Affirm your children's
curiosity about race and ethnicity. Point out that people come
in many shades. |
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33. |
Help young children make
an illustrated list of what friends do or what friendship means.
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34. |
Read books with multicultural
and tolerance themes to your children. |
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35. |
Watch what you say in
front of children when you're angry. Curb your road rage. |
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Watch how you handle
emotional issues with girls and boys. Do you attempt to distract
crying boys but reassure crying girls? |
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Examine the "diversity
profile" for your children's friends. Expand the circle
by helping your children develop new relationships. |
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38. |
Enroll your children
in schools, daycare centers, after-school programs and camps
that reflect and celebrate differences. |
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39. |
Participate in a Big
Brother or Big Sister program. |
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40. |
Live in an integrated and economically
diverse neighborhood.
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